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“The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.”


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  • Intense Realism
  • Pre-Mortems
  • Practical Pessimism
  • Planning For Failure
  • Negative Visualisation
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  • Gabriele Oettingen
  • Tim Ferriss
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How To Be Realistic (& Still Have Goals)

By Gabriele Oettingen
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The Art Of Actively Anticipating Misfortune

By Ryan Holiday
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The Power Of Doing a Pre-Mortem

By Dan Pink, Steven Johnson & Actualized
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We would be wrong to jettison our dreams, just as we are wrong to blindly assume that simply dreaming something can make it so.

- Gabriele Oettingen


Intense Realism: Seeing Things As They Are

By Robert Greene
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The Value in Imagining The Worst Will Happen

By Tim Ferriss
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How To Be A Realistic Optimist

By Heidi Grant, Ray Poole & Caroline Webb

The Power of Being Pessimistic

By Einzelgänger, The Science Of Us & The School Of Life
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The “WOOP” Technique

By Gabriele Oettingen
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Clips & Interviews

By Roelof Botha, Tony Robbins, Steve Magness & Philippe Korda 
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HBR

​Be an Optimist Without Being a Fool

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Huffington Post
Three Cheers for Intentions and Why I Prefer Them Over Affirmations

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Psychology Today
The Surprising Value of Negative Thinking

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HBR
Visualize Failure

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Exploring Your Mind
Characteristics of a Practical Person

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Inc.
Setting Goals Isn't Enough: Setting Daily Intentions Will Change Your Life

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Entrepreneur
​Positive Thinking Is an Obstacle to Achieving Your Goals

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Ryan Holiday
Practice The Stoic Art of Negative Visualization

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Shine
Why 'Realistic Optimism' Is Your Best Positive Thinking Move

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Psychology Today

The Pro-Mortem Method

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Gabriele Oettingen

Rethinking Positive Thinking by Gabriele Oettingen

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Ryan Holiday
Premeditatio Malorum Is a Form of Freedom & Empowerment

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Stefi Cohen
Why Powerlifter Stefi Cohen Visualizes Negative Outcomes

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Morgan Housel
Be a Realistic Optimist About the Future

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Book Extracts

Positive Thinking Could Be Holding You Back

Taken from Rethinking Positive Thinking, by Gabriele Oettingen.
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See Things For What They Are
Taken from The 50th Law, by 50 Cent & Robert Greene.
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Embrace Reality And Deal With It
Taken from Principles, by Ray Dalio.
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