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THE NEED FOR CONTROL VS LIVING FROM A PLACE OF SURRENDER,
BY MICHAEL A.SINGER

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More Inner Peace
We're All Control Freaks

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Tony Robbins
Understanding The Need For Things To Be A Certain Way

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Sounds True
Living From A Place OF Surrender

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Michael A. Singer
The Premise

Taken from The Surrender Experiment, by Michael A. Singer.
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AVOIDING THE TRAP OF NEEDING "MORE",
BY "CHASING THE PRESENT"

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Gabrial Cousins
"Going Somewhere" Is The Egoic Noose Around The Neck

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Rupert Spira
WE Need To Stop Seeking Happiness Externally

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Ed Sheeran
Maybe I'll Do This Vs It must Be this

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Kino Magregor
Not Needing Everything In Life to Be Shiny

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WHAT WE CAN (& CAN'T) CONTROL,
BY EPICTETUS

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Daily Stoic
Don't Hope Events Will Turn Out The Way You Want

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Daily Stoic
Differentiate What Is Up To Us -And What Isn't

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Einzelgänger
Stop Clinging, Let Go Of What We Can't Control

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TAOISM & THE ART OF LETTING GO,
BY EINZELGÄNGER

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Einzelgänger
The Art Of LEtting Go Of Our Need To Control

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Einzelgänger
The Taoist Way: The Paradox Of Letting Go

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Einzelgänger
How To Live Without Clinging, Control & Force

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CREATIVE PURSUITS,
FORGET OUTCOMES

Neil Strauss
Don't Be Too Attached To The Outcome

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Seth Godin
It's About The Process, Not The Outcome

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A BUDDHIST APPROACH TO DETACHING,
NON-ATTACHMENT

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Doug's Dharma
What Is Non-Attachment?

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Mind Hacks TV
Non-Attachment: Not Allowing Our Desires To Own Us

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Michael Stone
Non-Attachment: Not Clinging To Fixed Ideas

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APATHAEIA, ATARAXIA & BEING NEUTRAL,
BY THE STOICS

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Einzelgänger
Indifference, Impermanence & The Present

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Einzelgänger
Apatheia, Ataraxia & Eudaimonia

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Let's Talk Philosophy
How We Respond To What We Can't Control

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Michael A Singer
From Fighting To Harmony

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Secular Buddhism
Understanding Non-Attachment

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“He who is most attached to a particular outcome has the least amount of power.”


- Susan Stiffelman

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Deepak Chopra

Deepak Chopra
The Law Of Detachment

Taken from The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success, by Deepak Chopra.
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David Hawkins
Preface & Introduction

Taken from Letting Go, by David R. Hawkins, MD, PhD
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Judith Orloff
An Introduction To Letting GO

Taken from The Power of Surrender, by Dr. Judith Orloff
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Psychology Today
How To Best Use Detachment

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Huffington Post
How to Set Goals Without Caring About the Outcome

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Hack Spirit
The real meaning of Buddhist detachment & why most of us get it wrong

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Lifehack
How to Practice the Art of Detached Focus to Achieve Your Goals

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Loner Wolf
6 Ways to Practice Non-Attachment (and Find Inner Peace)

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Chopra
Using Detachment for a Happier Life

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The Wellness Universe
Detach from the Outcome: 7 Keys to Successful Detachment

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The Joy Within
Deepak Chopra Explains The Law of Detachment

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Good Therapy
How Attachment to Your Desires Is Making You Angry

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Tiny Buddha
Letting Go of Attachment: From A to Zen

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Zen Habits
Act with Devotion & Intention, Letting Go of Attachment to Outcome

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D.I.Y.
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Dr. Anna Kress
3 Steps to Releasing Your Attachment to an Outcome

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Chasing The Present

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TALKS

Jules Evans
Surrender: The Psychology Of Letting Go

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Judith Orloff
The Ecstasy Of Surrender

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HE Dagyab Rinpoche
Letting Go Of Attachment

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Jordan Peterson
Stop Fixating On The Ideal & Focus On The Process

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TIPS

Jay Shetty
Detachment: Where Nothing Owns You

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Joseph Rodrigues
Burning Desire, Detachment From Outcome

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