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Comparing Ourselves With Who We Were Yesterday

By Jordan Peterson
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The Benefits Of Having A "Worthy Rival"

By Simon Sinek
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Envy: When It Hurts Us & When It Helps Us

By Robert Greene
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The Self-Evaluation Maintenance Theory

By Abraham Tesser

Jealousy & Insecurity

By Mel Robbins
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Idols: Why We Worship Celebrities

By Tim Wu, Seeker & Teal Swan

Envy: How To Confront It (& Use It)

By Einzelgänger, Ryan Holiday & The School Of Life
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The Roots Of Our Main Insecurities

By Marisa Peer
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Who We're Comparing Ourselves With & Why

By Laurie Santos
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Reset Your Reference Points.

Glennon Doyle
The Brain Is a Comparison Machine

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Jordan Harbinger
We Focus on Who Makes Us Feel Worse

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By Jay Shetty & Project Better Self
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​Clips & Interviews

By Ed Mylett & Simon Sinek
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TED Talks & Lectures

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Headspace

We’re Always Going To Compare Ourselves. Here’s How To Skip The Despair.

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Trello
Jealous of Your Friend’s Success? Why Healthy Competition Can Be A Good Thing

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Psychology Today
Is Comparison Really the Thief of Joy?

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Jordan Harbinger
Why You Compare Yourself to Other People (And How to Stop)

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Huffington Post
It's Official, Our Friends Make Us Feel Crappier On Instagram Than Celebs

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Psychology Today
We Do Better When We’re Not Comparing Ourselves to Others

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Cleverism
How Competition Affects Your Brain

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VeryWell Mind
Social Comparison Theory in Psychology

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Fast Company
You Should Probably Compare Yourself To Others More, Not Less

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Ladders
The Envy Trap: Why We Compare Ourselves To Others & How To Stop It

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Forge
The Science of Why We Compare Ourselves to Others

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Body & Soul
Why We Think Other People’s Lives Are Better Than Our Own (& Why We’re Wrong)

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Jordan Peterson
Why You Shouldn't Envy the Man in a Ferrari

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Simon Sinek
How To Select A Worthy Rival

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Guy Winch
Comparison Is The Thief Of Satisfaction

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Simon Sinek
A Worthy Rival's Strengths Reveal Your Weaknesses

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Kapil Gupta
Competition Is The Road To Mediocrity

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Book Extracts

Worthy Rival

Taken from The Infinite Game, by Simon Sinek.
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“The Status Fiend” And 3 Other Types Of Envious People To Avoid
Essay adapted from The Laws Of Human Nature, by Robert Greene.
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The Function Of Comparison
Taken from The Comparison Cure, by Lucy Sheridan.
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