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EARLY LIFE & IMPACT ON
ADULTHOOD,
BY GABOR MATÉ

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KidCare Canada
Early Childcare & Emotional Development

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Gabor Maté
Attachment,  Authenticity & Having To Choose

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Datun Center
Attachment, Disease & Addiction

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ATTACHMENT THEORY,
BY JOHN BOWLBY

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Lifespan Learning
Attachment & Loss

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AMNH
Understanding the Essential Bond

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The School of Life
PSYCHOTHERAPY:  John Bowlby

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ATTACHMENT STYLES,
BY DAN SIEGEL

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Psychalive
Recreating Our Past In the Present

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Psychalive
Avoidant Attachment

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Psychalive
Disorganized Attachment

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Psychalive
Optimal Attachment

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ATTACHMENT "TEMPLATES" & WOUNDS,
BY NICOLE LEPERA

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Nicole Le Pera
YouR Relationship With Your Parents Is Your Template

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Nicole Le Pera
Healing Avoidant Attachment

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Nicole Le Pera
UNderstanding "Trauma Bonds"

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THE STRANGE SITUATION,
BY MARY AINSWORTH

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Psychology Unlocked
Mary Ainsworth & The Strange Situation

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Davidson Films
Attachment & The Growth Of Love

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BBC Radio 4
Mind Changers:
Mary Ainsworth

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THE STILL FACE EXPERIMENT,
BY EDWARD TRONICK

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Umass Boston
The work of Edward Tronick

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In Utero
The Still Face Experiment

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the School Of Life
the Impact Of Early Neglect

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Sue Johnson
Love Sense: from Infant to Adult

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ATTACHMENT TRAUMA & THE BRAIN,
BY ALLAN SCHORE

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PsychAlive
Attachment Trauma  & Impact On Brain

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Psychalive
Attachment Issues & Mental Health Risks

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NICABM
Early Bonds, The Brain & Resilience

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HOW TO UNDERSTAND & HEAL ATTACHMENT WOUNDS,
BY JACOB HAM

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Jacob Ham
Adulthood & Attachment States Of Mind

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Jacob Ham
Ambivalent attachment

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Jacob Ham
Avoidant Attachment

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Jacob Ham
Using Attachment For Healing

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TIPS & WEBISODES
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The School of Life

Sci Show
Attachment: How Your Childhood Shaped You

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Sprouts
Attachment: How The Early Years Shapes Your Life

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The School of Life
What Is Your Attachment Style?

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"We're only as needy as our unmet needs."
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- John Bowlby

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EXTRACTS

Levine & Heller
The New Science Of Adult ATTACHMENT

Taken from Attached, by Amir Levine, M.D & Rachel S.F. Heller, M.A.
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Diane Poole Heller
Secure Attachment

Taken from The Power Of Attachment, by Diane Poole Heller, Ph.D.
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Bethany Saltman
Prologue

Taken from Strange Situation,
By Bethany Saltman.
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Jonathan Haidt
love and Attachments

Chapter 6 of The Happiness Hypothesis, by Jonathan Haidt.
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INSIGHT

The Cut
Can Attachment Theory Explain All Our Relationships?

Full Article

Psychology today
Are Secure Relationships the Key to an Exciting Life?

Full Article

Simply Psychology
Mary Ainsworth &The Strange Situation

Full Article

Haaretz
The Five Months That Determine You & Your Kids' Future Happiness

FULL ARTICLE

The guardian
How you attach to people may explain a lot about your inner life

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Psychology Today
Attachment Security: Born or Made?

FULL ARTICLE

The Good Men Project
The Attachment Theory: How Childhood Shapes Your Life

FULL ARTICLE

Medium
What Your Attachment Style Means in Adulthood

FULL ARTICLE

BrainPickings
The Science of Affection: How Parents Shape Children’s Emotional Patterns

FULL ARTICLE

Bustle
What's My Attachment Style? Here's Why You Need To Know

FULL ARTICLE

The Atlantic
Becoming Attached

FULL ARTICLE
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Psych Central
How to Change Your Attachment Style

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FILMS

Davidson Films
Attachment Theory Across Generations

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CLIPS

Dan Siegel
resolving Past Trauma & Attachment

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Robert Firestone
The Fantasy Bond

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This Emotional Life
The First Connection

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TALKS

Ruth Feldman
Synchrony & the Neurobiology of Attachment

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Mark Manson
Attachment theory

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Beta
Attachment types & Relationship Patterns

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PODCASTS

Peter Levine
HEaling our Attachment Wounds

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Colin Murray Parkes
Insecurity and Extremism

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(Great) Expectations
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David Allen
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James Clear
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Nir Eyal
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Janina Fisher

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Jon Kabat-Zinn
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Bessel Van Der Kolk
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Peter Levine
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The A.C.E. Study
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The Batman Effect
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The Camel, The Lion
& The Child

Confirmation Bias
The Counter-Clockwise Study

Core Pain
Counterfactual Thinking
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Deliberate Practice
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Design Thinking
Desirable Difficulties
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Dunning-Kruger Effect

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F**k It Therapy
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Negative Visualisation
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The Pomodoro Technique
Priming
The Progressive Muscle Relaxation Technique (PMR)
Quantum Touch
Radical Acceptance (DBT)
Radically Open DBT
The Re-Framing Matrix
The Relaxation Response
Re-Parenting

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