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10/9/2020

B Is For... Bad Mood

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DARK MATTER

Don't Be Afraid Of Your Dark Side


There can be serious perks to being in a bad mood. The black clouds hanging over our heads do actually have silver linings.
No-one said we always have to be perky.

While there are obvious benefits to releasing negative emotions, like having a good cry, there are also quite a few advantages of being in a stinking bad mood.

Here are just a few:


1. Effectiveness

From Big Think:

"A study from the University of Waterloo published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences shows that being in a bad mood can actually be a good thing. Specifically, a bad mood can boost "executive function."

In other words, it means people in a bad mood "get things done".

The story continues:

"But why is this? Negative moods promote an analytical thinking style that's very well suited to problem-solving."

We don't faff around, in other words.

(N.B. The effect is more pronounced amongst people who are used to bad moods - i.e. it doesn't distract them when a black cloud hovers over them, unlike happy campers who are not as used to low spells and so are more likely to be derailed by them.


2. Grit


According to social psychologist, Joseph Forgas, bad moods make us likelier to stick at things.

From The Conversation:

"Other experiments found that when happy and sad participants were asked to perform a difficult mental task, those in a bad mood tried harder and persevered more. They spent more time on the task, attempted more questions and produced more correct answers."


3. Memory

As Forgas adds in the same article, we are also a lot better at remembering stuff:

"In one study, a bad mood (caused by bad weather) resulted in people better remembering the details of a shop they just left. Bad mood can also improve eyewitness memories by reducing the effects of various distractions, such as irrelevant, false or misleading information."


4. Judgement

And we are also a lot less biased, Forgas says:

"We found that bad moods also reduced gullibility and increased scepticism when evaluating urban myths and rumours, and even improved people’s ability to detect deception more accurately. People in a mild bad mood are also less likely to rely on simplistic stereotypes."


5. Lie Detection

From The New York Times (referring to a study led by Forgas):

"A 2006 study in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology tested subjects on their ability to detect a lie. Subjects who were put in a negative mood by watching a short film about dying of cancer were far more likely to detect lies than subjects who were put in a good mood by watching a clip from a comedy show."


6. Longevity


And finally, in undoubtedly the most important finding of all, the act of embracing our bad moods (rather than pretending we don't have them), can literally save our lives.

From the BBC (referring to a 2010 study of patients with coronary artery disease, which looked at their relationship with expressing anger):

"Over the course of the study, 20% experienced a major cardiac event and 9% percent died. Initially it looked like both anger and suppressed anger increased the likelihood of having a heart attack. But after controlling for other factors, the researchers realised anger had no impact – while suppressing it increased the chances of having a heart attack by nearly three-fold."

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2/22/2020

H Is For... Hedonic Adaptation

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HAPPY-AS-IS

Why Everything Loses Its Sparkle & What That Means For Happiness

Nothing lasts, particularly the things that we think make us happy - which makes increasing our "happiness baseline" ever more crucial.
According to the principles of Hedonic Adaptation (or The Hedonic Treadmill), anything that once gave us joy will cease to at some point in the future.

It might be within a relatively short period of time, too, which can come as a bit of a shocker when you feel you have stumbled across a significant piece of good fortune or have discovered an elixir of some kind.

It could be juicing, hiking, fasting - or it could just be getting high. It's great at first but after a while, it becomes the new normal and in order to get that kick again, you need to amp it up a bit (and again and again).

There are obvious downsides to this approach.

But any kind of addictive behaviour - even "healthy addictions", like exercise, can be, at their core, a need to get that original feeling of elation that came the very first time we did it.


Think The Lottery Will Make You Happy?

This principle, that we adapt to our new states of being, even after they radically change, is applied to a well-known study of lottery winners, in the TED-ED video here.

The point was to find out if coming in to such extreme levels of good fortune cemented their long-term happiness.

Did their "baselines" of happiness change at all after coming into such a signficant sum of money?

They did, at first.

But then after a while, participants, like elastic bands, snapped back in to place.

They were about as happy as they were before they won the prize (and some, even less so).

This principle also applies to relationships, career satisfaction, material gain and even altruistic behavior.

No matter what changes in the external world, at some point we adapt and whatever - or whoever -  initially gave us a happiness kick, now fails to have the same potency.

Married couples no longer experiencing the "honeymoon period" will know this first-hand and will learn the lesson we all have to in some way, that happiness doesn't lie outside of ourselves.

Why Baselines Matter

And that is what makes the "baseline" so crucial, particularly for those of us whose basic level of happiness isn't particularly high.

No matter what our default setting is, there is nothing external that is going to change that.

The only thing we can ever do is work on increasing it "internally" instead.

Because whatever it is we think will "make" us happy "out there" at some point will fail us. 

And we will be back to where we started from, still having to deal with whatever is inside us and whatever it is that is really dictating how happy we feel in the first place.


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